
Committed to the Practice, Not the Product
Finding Inspiration
I’ve been immersed in Seth Godin’s The Practice: Shipping Creative Work. It’s inspiring and packed with practical insights. The idea I’m hooked on? Committing to the practice—the process—of creative work, not the product, the end result.
Maybe you’re chasing goals too. Maybe you’re stuck on outcomes. You’re designed for a journey that’s about growth, not just the finish line.
Breaking Old Habits
I struggle with this concept. I’ve always been goal-obsessed, racing from one target to the next. The end result was everything; the steps to get there were just hurdles to clear fast. I didn’t enjoy the process or savor the journey. If I didn’t hit my goal quickly, I saw it as pointless. If I failed, I felt like a total failure.
I skipped celebrating small wins, got discouraged by mistakes, and missed the value of the practice. I was too focused on the next goal.
Returning to Dance
Returning to dance training after a long break was tough. I had to start from scratch—out of shape, feeling past my prime. All I knew was I needed to dance again. I set a schedule and small goals but had no clue about my purpose. Did I want to perform? Teach? No big picture in mind, and that scared me.
Seth Godin’s words hit home: “It’s juggling. Throw and throw, and one day the catching will take care of itself.” I took it to mean my skills and purpose would clarify if I committed to the practice.
Showing Up Always
Another gem from Seth: commit to the practice, no matter how you feel. Show up even when you’re not inspired, not “in the flow,” or when the muse is gone. So I did. I’m committed to the practice, not the day’s outcome. I show up whether I feel it or not, even on crappy practice days—and there’ve been plenty. I’m committed, even without knowing what I’ll do with it.
This is new territory for me. Trusting the process without a clear goal is freaky but freeing. I’m more in tune with my dancing than ever, and it’s pure joy.
Letting Go
I’m letting go of expectations, silencing the demanding voices of old teachers, choreographers, and directors screaming for more. From this place of focusing on the process, not the result, I’m finding my expression and soul in my work again. I’m rediscovering myself. I’m breathing. To me, it’s beautiful.
This self-discovery is reshaping my midlife comeback. Seth’s book is one I’ll revisit—its ideas feel timeless and vital for every step of my journey.
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Are you rushing to goals or savoring the work? How can you let go and find freedom in the process? I recommend The Practice for your creative journey. Want more insights for your women’s wellness? Sign up for my newsletter and listen to Sharise Uncut. Let’s embrace the practice together.